Friday, 25 May 2012

Man Admitted to Hospital for Kidney Stone, Discovers He’s a Woman

quote [ Steve, who now goes by “Stevie,” said his wife and their six children accepted his new identity right away ]

HOT OFF THE PRESSES!

Marked "not worksafe" cuz you know, controversy.

A Colorado man who was admitted to the hospital for a kidney stone received surprising news when the nurse came back with test results revealing he was actually a woman.

Denver photographer Steve Crecelius said he’s felt a little different all his life.

“When I was about 6 years old, I started having these feminine feelings, but that was in the ’60s. Wearing my mom’s makeup, I thought I looked pretty,” Crecelius told ABC News.

So when he went to the emergency room five years ago, he wasn’t too shocked when the nurse told him she found traits of both genders in his ultrasound results.

He was intersex, meaning he had both male genitalia and internal female sex organs.

“The nurse is reading the ultrasound and says, ‘Huh, this says you’re a female,’ Crecelius said. “It was very liberating. I had spent so much energy after the age of 13 constantly evaluating how people looked at me and acted towards me.”

Steve, who now goes by “Stevie,” said his wife and their six children accepted his new identity right away.

“We told them individually. Some were in person and some weren’t,” Crecelius said. “Every one of them said, ‘We don’t care one way or the other. We love you for who you are and you’re still my dad.’”

Crecelius and his wife, Debbie, have been together for 25 years and she’s supported him every step of the way, including taking him to buy his first bra.

She told Crecelius, “You know, when I first saw you, I said to myself, ’He runs like a girl.’”

“I think we were pretty good when she began to mourn the loss of her husband,” Crecelius said. “We worked through what we needed to. The concept of unconditional love is a larger story.”

Intersex is a term used to describe people who bear both external genitals and internal organs, such as testes and ovaries.

A person with the condition may have male genitals along with fallopian tubes and ovaries.

“The condition used to be called hermaphroditism, meaning that person can’t be identified as male or female,” Crecelius said.

According to the Intersex Society of North America, more than 1,500 children a year are born intersex.

For Crecelius, he hopes he can be an advocate for those born intersex and same-sex couples.

“I think of bullying, because I haven’t heard anyone talk about this. It’s important to talk about,” Crecelius said. “People need to be accepting and understand. I was born this way, and loving each other and supporting each other will always be the main factor in our household.”
[sci&tech] [by oxyrosis@10:36pmGMT] [+8 Interesting]

Comments

zenviper said @ 11:12pm GMT on 25th May
I think it's kind of strange that he felt prompted to go full female.

He could have shrugged off what the hospital said, and done nothing, and really... he could have just gone female all along.

Reminds me of Randy from South Park (embedding disabled):
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buzhidao said @ 12:23am GMT on 26th May
urm, i'm confused.
b said @ 12:24am GMT on 26th May [Score:4 Underrated]
What a horribly written article.
conception said @ 12:47am GMT on 26th May
It's like morning local news...
sezoomj said @ 1:10am GMT on 26th May
He lives in Colorado, does this mean he's not married anymore?

Colorado: “Only the union of one man and one woman shall be valid or recognized as a marriage in the state of Colorado.” Colorado Const., 31 (2006)
Roulette1337 said @ 1:28am GMT on 26th May
Been plenty of trans articles on SE lately. Are you guys trying to tell me something? I know I look good in a dress but I just couldn't handle heels.
skainsmate said @ 1:31am GMT on 26th May
They're brutal.

They make my legs look fantastic, though.

Still, trans women who were on the tall side before transitioning are better off in flats.
theolypse said @ 11:14am GMT on 26th May
I'm partial to platform boots. How much harder are pumps, really?
buzhidao said @ 12:18pm GMT on 26th May
a lot.
clair7857 said @ 1:37am GMT on 26th May
Oh, it's easy. The key is to imagine yourself walking on your toes as opposed to your heel. You'll get used to it.
Uncle Chester said @ 6:30am GMT on 26th May
What if you don't have to walk in them ;)
GordonGuano said @ 9:42am GMT on 26th May
Oh Chester, you're like the creepy, bad-touching uncle I never h-wait, nevermind.
spite48 said @ 2:09am GMT on 28th May
Quick, everyone switch genders and partners!
scojam said @ 3:05am GMT on 26th May
Coming out so to speak did wonders for his hair.
angedelamort said @ 5:16am GMT on 26th May
any pictures?
Fwee said @ 6:38am GMT on 26th May
I find it odd that someone who apparently has identified (for the most part) as being male his whole life suddenly decides to identify as female because his genetics match up.

I understand it (in that he felt he needed a trigger), but such a sudden change I thought would require a significant amount of thought.
swiggy said @ 7:19am GMT on 26th May
Should've had the doctors whip him up a fake vulva beneath his dick and gone to japan for porn work as a futanari.

On a side note: Every time there's an article like this I want to post "Sex Changes" by the dresden dolls, but everything I've ever seen online is a shit cell phone recording from a concert.
theolypse said @ 11:15am GMT on 26th May
I'm tempted to drop "Runs in the Family", but that's a little more anarchic about it.
piginspace said @ 6:18pm GMT on 26th May [Score:1 Interesting]
a.talisan said @ 2:14pm GMT on 27th May
My hatred for this article is all about the horrible writing and technically incorrect title. Being intersex =/= "found out I'm a woman!" He obviously has some working man parts if he has offspring with a woman.

And gods. Doesn't EVERYONE think they are odd, picked on, and treated differently in the teenage years? And don't most in that situation spend time and effort trying to figure out what people are objecting to about them? Yes, I know when there is actually something different people are more brutal. But I get whined at constantly that "I was different in highschool and everyone picked on me" and they never seem to accept that's how most of us felt and so isn't really noteworthy.
Naruki said @ 6:05pm GMT on 27th May
You know, after I won the lottery I found out I was rich.
arctan said @ 2:05am GMT on 29th May [Score:1 Insightful]
This person's story is not at all typical of transpeople or intersex people, but if finding out she was intersex was the trigger she needed to make it "okay" to be trans -- and she's apparently felt that she was trans for a long time -- then hey, more power to her.

He obviously has some working man parts if he has offspring with a woman.

The thing is the majority of transwomen had completely "working man parts" and weren't physically intersex at all before transitioning. So?

Doesn't EVERYONE think they are odd, picked on, and treated differently in the teenage years?

Not universally, and even if the majority of us are, not all to the same degree, and not all in the same way.

This is the problem where the fact that everyone has problems and nobody has a perfect life is somehow twisted into an argument that everyone has the *same* problems and nobody actually has it any worse than anyone else, which is a stupid thing to say.

The fact that you were bullied in high school and didn't kill yourself but someone else did may actually be evidence that *they had it worse than you*, not that you know for a fact you got exactly the same treatment and you're just a tougher, stronger, better person than they are.

I don't know why giving people the benefit of the doubt that they may in fact have had it worse than you is so hard for some people. Being asked to at least entertain the possibility that they're privileged seems to piss people off beyond all reason -- and ironically I think that that's the real sign of emotional weakness, the inability to accept that even though things were bad for you they might not have been *that* bad. (Like the people who flip the fuck out when told despite all their money troubles they're fantastically rich relative to people in the Third World.)

Like most nerdy guys, I got pushed around and such for being insufficiently masculine in high school. I had feelings of unworthiness and out-of-placeness related to my "manhood" and whether I could measure up to the expectations placed on me because of being male.

However, these feelings, bad as they felt at the time, were clearly *not that bad* because I'm not a transwoman and never felt the need to risk everything to push aside the identity I'd been handed and carve out a scary new one for myself.

This isn't because I went through the same feelings as transwomen and was a stronger, tougher, better person. It's because *I am not a transwoman* and so my feelings of alienation and anxiety about my gender were *not as bad*.

I wish all the obnoxious cispeople going on about "I learned to accept my feelings of discomfort with my gender role and be happy in my birth gender, why can't you?" could get this through their head -- being trans means that it was *much worse* for them than it was for you, and the very fact that it wasn't bad enough to cause you to question and abandon your gender identity *means you are different from them*.
theolypse said @ 5:38pm GMT on 29th May
and so my feelings of alienation and anxiety about my gender were *not as bad*.

They were also not of the same sort, if you've described them neatly, here. The gender box men are shoved into is restrictive and painful, but finding the box alien and unnatural isn't just an extreme case of fitting poorly because of the box' fucked up shape.

I'm sure this isn't really news to you, but the clarification ought to be aired.

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